What makes us human?

Exploring the deep emotions, abstract thinking, and creativity that define the human experience.

Good morning! Ever found yourself lost in a deep philosophical debate over coffee, or maybe just wondered why we cry during Pixar movies while our dog stays blissfully unbothered?

Today, we’re taking a deep dive into one of life’s biggest questions: What makes us human? From complex emotions to abstract thinking, we’re peeling back the layers of what sets us apart from the rest of the animal kingdom.

Grab a snack (just not a 48-pack of Fruit by the Foot from Costco) and let’s get into it!

What Makes Us Human?.

After years of research, study, and reflection, I’ve come to believe that the question of what makes us human is both beautifully complex and deeply personal. It’s not just about biology or brain size those are just the foundation.

What sets us apart from the rest of the animal kingdom, and even from our closest relatives like chimpanzees, goes far beyond our DNA.

Being human is about how we think, feel, connect, and create. It’s a rich tapestry of qualities that makes us unique. Let’s break it down.

Complex emotions: Feeling is our superpower.

When I first started exploring what makes us human, one thing kept surfacing our emotions. We don’t just feel the basics like happiness or fear, but also incredibly nuanced emotions like nostalgia, guilt, or existential dread.

Think about the last time you sat with an old friend and shared memories that made you both laugh and cry. It’s not just about surviving in the moment; our emotions are often tied to the past and the future, interwoven with hopes, dreams, and regrets.

Animals have feelings no one would deny that your dog is excited when you come home or scared during a thunderstorm but human emotions are deeper, more layered.

We mourn the loss of a loved one years after they’re gone, we feel joy just imagining future successes, and we experience empathy for people we’ve never met, even in distant countries. These emotions fuel our art, music, and stories.

It’s why we cry during a sad movie, even though we know it’s fiction. In my view, this emotional depth is one of the core elements of our humanity. It’s what drives us to connect with others, to build relationships, and to create meaning in our lives.

Abstract thinking: Masters of “What if?”.

Perhaps the most profound aspect of being human is our ability to think abstractly. Animals can solve problems some apes can use tools, and dolphins exhibit extraordinary intelligence but humans are different because we don’t just solve problems in front of us.

We think in the abstract. We plan for the future, imagine outcomes, and even dream about things that don’t exist yet. This capacity for abstract thought is what allows us to innovate, to push the boundaries of what’s possible.

I find it fascinating how humans use this ability to think far beyond their immediate needs. Ancient civilizations built pyramids and mapped the stars, and today, we’re sending probes to other planets.

We’re not just responding to our environment; we’re shaping it. I often marvel at how we’ve transformed our surroundings, from building cities to developing complex technologies like the internet. This capacity to wonder, to ask “What if?” is, to me, one of the most compelling aspects of being human.

It’s what drives us to explore new frontiers whether that’s space, science, or even the depths of our own minds.

Language and communication: Sharing stories, shaping civilizations.

In my research, one thing that kept standing out is just how pivotal language is to being human. It’s not just a tool for survival, like a warning bark from a dog or a bird’s call to its mate human language is infinitely more complex.

It’s how we convey abstract ideas, share experiences, and build entire civilizations. It’s through language that we pass down knowledge from one generation to the next, whether through written texts, oral traditions, or even social media.

But language isn’t just about communication it’s how we construct reality. Through stories, we shape our worldviews, define our cultures, and connect with others. Stories are one of humanity’s oldest and most powerful tools.

They bind communities together, provide meaning to our experiences, and help us make sense of the world. Personally, I believe this ability to tell stories, to share who we are, what we’ve been through, and what we hope for, is a defining aspect of being human. It’s why humans have art, literature, and even mythology.

We’re constantly narrating our lives, weaving our experiences into larger tapestries that explain our place in the universe.

Culture and creativity: The art of being human.

What fascinates me most about humans is how, unlike any other species, we create culture. Culture isn’t just about traditions or rituals it’s about how we express our creativity, our thoughts, our emotions.

Think about it: no other species spends time painting murals, writing symphonies, or designing clothing. But humans? We’re constantly inventing new ways to express who we are.

“Culture is how we make sense of our existence and share that meaning with others.”

I’ve always been amazed by how humans can take something as simple as a blank canvas or a lump of clay and turn it into something that reflects not just an individual’s creativity, but also a society’s values and beliefs.

Culture allows us to transcend the purely biological and tap into something more symbolic. Whether it’s the way we celebrate holidays, the art we hang in museums, or the films we binge-watch on Netflix, culture is how we connect with each other, how we share our human experience.

In my opinion, it’s the ultimate expression of our creative nature.

Self-awareness and morality: The internal compass.

Self-awareness is another uniquely human trait that has long intrigued me. We don’t just live we reflect. We think about our choices, question our behaviors, and ponder our existence.

This constant reflection drives us to search for meaning and purpose in our lives. While animals may act on instinct, humans wrestle with big questions: Who am I? Why am I here? Am I living a good life?

This self-awareness also feeds into our sense of morality. Humans have a conscience. We develop systems of ethics, laws, and justice to guide our actions and to hold ourselves accountable.

In my view, this is one of the most profound aspects of being human: the ability to not only reflect on our existence but also to care about the consequences of our actions.

We grapple with questions of right and wrong, fairness and justice, in ways that no other species does. And it’s this moral compass that drives us to create societies where cooperation, trust, and altruism are valued.

Empathy and altruism: The heart of humanity.

While we might think of humanity in terms of intelligence or creativity, I believe one of our most defining traits is our capacity for empathy and altruism. Humans have an extraordinary ability to care for others often in ways that go far beyond mere survival.

We help strangers, donate to causes, and act with kindness, even when there’s no direct benefit to ourselves. This willingness to care for others, even those we don’t know personally, is what makes our species unique.

I’ve observed how humans go out of their way to help others whether through acts of compassion in their daily lives or through large-scale humanitarian efforts. It’s our empathy that fosters the social bonds necessary for building families, communities, and even nations.

And it’s our capacity for altruism that allows us to cooperate on such a grand scale, from caring for the sick to working together on global issues like climate change.

The human condition: The beauty and burden of being human.

Ultimately, what makes us human is the delicate balance between our intellectual, emotional, and social capacities. We feel deeply, think abstractly, create culture, and reflect on our place in the world.

We care for others, often at our own expense, and we’re driven by more than just survival. We seek meaning, purpose, and connection.

In my personal view, being human is both a gift and a responsibility. We have the ability to shape our world in ways that no other species can. We have the power to create beauty, to build civilizations, and to foster deep connections with one another.

But with that power comes the burden of self-awareness the knowledge that we’re finite beings, constantly searching for meaning in a universe that doesn’t always provide clear answers.

In the end, being human means embracing both our potential and our limitations. It’s about finding joy in the complexity of our emotions, creativity in our abstract thoughts, and purpose in our connections with others.

What makes us human is not just our biology it’s the way we use our minds, hearts, and hands to build a world that reflects the best of who we are. And that, I believe, is what truly sets us apart.

After exploring the depths of what makes us human, I’ve come to appreciate that it's not just any single trait but the interplay between our emotions, thoughts, creativity, and empathy that defines us. We are storytellers, inventors, and caretakers—constantly balancing the practicalities of life with our need for meaning and connection. It’s this complexity, this depth of experience, that makes being human both a joy and a challenge.

Ultimately, being human is about more than survival; it’s about thriving in ways that are unique to us. We’re always questioning, creating, and seeking something greater—whether it’s understanding ourselves or making the world a better place. And that, in my view, is the true beauty of our existence.

Speaking of seeking something greater…

In tomorrow’s newsletter, we’ll slow things down and dive into the philosophy of slow living. With our fast-paced, always-connected world, it’s easy to forget the power of taking a pause. But what happens when we choose to live more intentionally, savoring the moment instead of rushing through it? Let’s explore how slowing down might just be the key to living a richer, more fulfilling life. See you then!

I think therefore I am!